can i date someone when i'm already married/?

[rippytrippy]

hehe weird question but can i date someone if i'm married? if i do then will it make sebastian pissy?

i just wanna see some 10heart events with some of my fav npcs, i don't like that i can't reach 10 hearts with em :c

tia

 

[Yume]

Seb could be pissed off, try check your luck (if you have good luck you have less chances of him being jelous/finding out about your gift to another marriagable candidate), for gifts at least it works like this. Dunno for more than 8 hearts tho... you can try and see what happens

 

[rippytrippy]

*cOugh*
so i mustered up my courage, bought a bouquet and... gave it to Penny O.o she gave me her normal dialog, and Sebby didn't say anything... when I went to the friendship tab tho it said that she's still single, tho it showed the bouquet symbol next to her name.

so ig this means you can watch all the 10hrt cutscenes but they're technically not ur gf/bf? idk

 

[iridium quality]

well if you gift something to a date able NPC who is your spouses gender they will be angry. So that means you can gift as much as you want to the bachelorettes

 

[imnvs]

Yes, you can date someone while married.

If that person is the same gender as your spouse, when you give a gift to that person, your spouse will get jealous.

Yes, you will see the bouquet forever, but the person will be listed as single because you are otherwise occupied officially.

 

[Magically Clueless]

just wanted to add that your spouse ONLY gets jealous if you have the other bachelor/ette at over 8 hearts and it's a chance rather than gauranteed

 

[GLekter]

I think you're making your dreams come true here, hahaha. Did you know that most people who can't have or achieve something they desire in real life they'll transfer it either into the mental space or even in a game? This is what you're doing here. These are hidden desires that we often suppress. It's not about not being moral or anything like that (what does moral even means these days anyway?), you do you. I admit polygamy is really interesting and represents a new territory to discover :) Anyway, sorry for the long speech, I should answer your question, hahaah. And luckily, the answer is yes! You can date someone else while you're married.

 

[rippytrippy]

i cheat on everyone in towN

 

[Quillmagic]

I wouldn't personally (I'm too moral in-game ) But you could cheat with all the bachelorettes. I'm still glad they don't get mad at you for a platonic gift, though!

 

[v_apollo]

As a polyam person t h a n k you for asking this XD it always sucks when games don't let you have multiple partners, but hey. it's getting better!

 

[Xristos]

if i do then will it make sebastian pissy?

yes. its funny though so you should try it :D

 

[PookieDoodle]

Can't you get to 10 hearts just by taking them to the movie theatre to see a movie they like and buying them the snack that they want? I did that with three datable NPC's so far.

 

[trassh]

yes. its funny though so you should try it :D

psychopath

 

[sierra/sisi123456789]

Yes you can I got married to Penny and I just got to 8 hearts with sma and gave him the bouquet if you date someone of the opposite gender of your husband/wife, they don't get mad at you

 

[ClawsThatScratch]

hehe weird question but can i date someone if i'm married? if i do then will it make sebastian pissy?

i just wanna see some 10heart events with some of my fav npcs, i don't like that i can't reach 10 hearts with em :c

tia

They won’t like it but yes they can’t divorce u

 

[nicodeux]

They won’t like it but yes they can’t divorce u

I'm not so sure of this. Friendship decay is re-enabled with spouses, meaning their hearts slowly decrease if you neglect your relationship. I have seen a player wondering why his spouse (Sebastian in this case) had left the house and brought his spouse room with him. I believe this happens if the spouse hearts drop near 6 though I did not find the exact value in the wiki.

 

[Ereo]

I'm not so sure of this. Friendship decay is re-enabled with spouses, meaning their hearts slowly decrease if you neglect your relationship. I have seen a player wondering why his spouse (Sebastian in this case) had left the house and brought his spouse room with him. I believe this happens if the spouse hearts drop near 6 though I did not find the exact value in the wiki.

No, they can’t divorce you. If their hearts get low, they’ll stay in bed all day and weint talk to you, but they can’t leave.

 

[stardew_luv]

Yes they can (and rightfully so) get jealous. Though I think they only mention it for a week or something. Also most of the 10 heart events you kiss them in the scene so even in virtual world would be awkward (and of course irl lethal) to your relationship with your spouse. But I don’t think you get punished in the game except I think you get the cold shoulder for a week, or they might stay in bed all day, if they get jealous.

 

[stardew_luv]

I'm not so sure of this. Friendship decay is re-enabled with spouses, meaning their hearts slowly decrease if you neglect your relationship. I have seen a player wondering why his spouse (Sebastian in this case) had left the house and brought his spouse room with him. I believe this happens if the spouse hearts drop near 6 though I did not find the exact value in the wiki.

Wow I’ve never read this, but would definitely make sense and it makes it more like irl that way. I don’t think Harvey has ever gotten below 10 so they just nap all day and don’t want to talk and that only happens in the beginning if I didn’t get close enough to 11 hearts before wedding.

 

[ClawsThatScratch]

I'm not so sure of this. Friendship decay is re-enabled with spouses, meaning their hearts slowly decrease if you neglect your relationship. I have seen a player wondering why his spouse (Sebastian in this case) had left the house and brought his spouse room with him. I believe this happens if the spouse hearts drop near 6 though I did not find the exact value in the wiki.

DANGGG