Writing to update on a few things.
By the end of Y2 and into Y3, we noticed:
- lag/performance dips increased steadily and happen frequently. We have a pretty robust farm with lots of things going on, and I'm guessing that's driving some of this.
- Crashes now happen at variable points in the day, so it's been a constant concern and frustration we have had to work with.
- We also noticed that our money totals at the end of the day are different even though we have a shared everything and aren't splitting funds, etc. I'm not sure if that's due to us taking different skill level bonuses but neither of us could recall seeing different money totals before.
- Our pets disappeared completely, as discussed here:
https://forums.stardewvalley.net/threads/pets-missing.34262/