Anhaga
Rancher
It's a topic that needs to be hashed out if we're going to be a welcoming community, and honestly, some of us do only really post on the weekend anyways--I'm not going to let "well we stopped talking about it before you had the time to be on the forum" stop me from contributing. It's not like a necro'd a thread 3 months old.Everyone was ready to drop the topic until you posted, or so it seemed, btw.
At any rate.
"being manipulative"? Of what? The game mechanics that CA has left in? And why, pray tell, isn't it "okay" for me to play the game as I want, taking advantage of game mechanics that CA must have left in for a reason?It's implying to new players that being manipulative is okay
This is my point. In general, the SDV community is really open and welcoming to everyone regardless of their playstyles. I don't like powergaming and speed runs myself, but I'm not going to even imply that the people who prefer to play that way are somehow playing the game "wrong." They're playing it the way that makes it fun and satisfying for them. Likewise, it sets my teeth on edge when my kids just meander through the game, not really doing anything directed. But it's their saves, so that's the right way to play for them. I'm not going to tell them that they're wrong and try to shame them into playing differently.
That is an ethic that all of us experienced players should hold to here, as well. Welcome the newbies and don't tell them that they're doing it wrong, even if you feel like a particular way of playing is completely contrary to your own philosophy of gaming. We all come from different places, different games, different lives. One of the beauties of SDV is that it is a particularly forgiving and flexible game that does not force you to play in a particular style. As a result, there's no wrong way to play. Period. Passing judgment on others' decision to use day resets to change what they get in the game mail in their own game is really contrary to not only this community, but also to the overall flexibility of the game.