Xbox Co-op online 4 player severe lag and crashing

[Reign-_]

- Hi , me and 3 of my friends are on a standard farm and everyone but the host is experiencing lag in the form of loading screens( going into town, etc.) picking up items in the nearby radius, opening chests, locating ladders etc. Everyone but the host experiences these things. Every 4-5 days it will get worse and at the end of the day the game will crash for everyone but the host, or everyone host included. Loading screens and everything else ends up taking anywhere from 30 in game minutes to an hour. Everything is fine when file is loaded and everyone is joining, but after about 1-2 in game hours it progressively gets worse and if everyone is in a different area the delay/lag becomes unbearable. the mine and skull cavern are almost impossible to mine in. We’ve already made sure it isn’t a connection issue, everyone’s connection is stable. But it’s as if the game is unable to keep up with all 4 players and it causes lag to load everything in.
- Version Number 1.6.15.1
- Xbox Series S and Series X
- In game language is English
- Online 4 player Co-op
- all inputs from controller