multiplayer lag

Hi, I have been hosting a multiplayer game since November 4, 2022 with my partner (lives in the same house, uses the same internet) and my friend who lives in the States (I live in Canada). Over the past several months we've had recurring disconnection issues where both my partner and friend...

Me and my girlfriend started a farm where I host and have been playing on it for a while, but the past 2 days she's been frequently disconnecting without either of us having any internet or bandwidth issues whatsoever. It's become a bit of a problem because it's starting to happen so often she...

I've been trying to play multiplayer with two friends. I'm the host. We can connect fine and maybe play for a half hour or so, but they will inevitably start to lag and then get disconnected. This is making the game borderline unplayable! I'm hosting on a Mac, and they're playing on Windows...

It started a few days ago. Screen loading is slow, can't always open boxes, chopped wood and stone etc won't gather into inventory. The host is fine, this only affects the invited player. Fishing is fine, harvesting crops and watering are fine. Mines no way. When the host goes to bed it...