Laissez_Faire_Farming
Farmer
Here's a fun challenge.
If you are someone like me who is having a hard time choosing your future spouse, here's a solution.
You do not need to control your destiny. Let destiny chooses your future spouse.
Let your future lover chases you instead.
Let the "Help Wanted Board" guides you.
⇒ What do I mean by that?
For example, if you help Haley or Sebastian with something, you are increasing 1 heart.
Also, you do not purposely have to trigger the heart's events. You let the event happen itself without looking at the wiki or cheat guides.
4 fundamental rules to follow:
- Do not show your interest to them.
- You should not give them gifts except the Winter Star event but focus on completing quests. ((Being ambitious and hustle for money only.))
- You should not speak with the bachelors or bachelorettes.
- You should only speak with them after you completed their quest.
⇒ Let the bachelor or bachelorette chases you.
Please understand this. You are the only local farmer in the Stardew Valley community.
These bachelors or bachelorettes are hiring YOU for their needs, or maybe they want to see your pretty face... Yoba knows, these bachelors have a secret crush on you?
E.g., I was shocked that Sebastian asks you to bring wheat or joja cola...Sam wants a cave carrot from a cute girl. Haley wants a cucumber from a handsome man...
You know what I am trying to say.
⇒ When do you need to date?
After you reach out to
hearts events, you will send this candidate a bouquet.
⇒When to marry?
Now, you can gift them their favorite items or foods after finding secret notes, or maybe other NPC will tell you other NPC's favorite gift.
Then, feel free to marry your future spouse.
Pro: You do not need to force someone to like you. You let the person chases you and shows interest in you instead.
Con: This challenge takes a lot of patience.
If you did not like the first candidate, you may choose the second candidate.
Do not force yourself to marry or date the first candidate.
⇒ Can I cheat?
Yes, you may break the 4 fundamental rules a little by giving them their favorite gifts, but it is more fun to be chased.
⇒ Can I talk to Haley? She is so funny.
⇒ Can I talk to Harvey? Cause you never know, he can give you excellent health advice in his dialogue.
Yes, you can speak one of the bachelor or bachelorettes once in a while because sometimes they give you great tips or hints.
Do not cling to them or speak with them every day while both of you are single. You will see a negative dialogue. Trust me.
-------------------WARNING-------------------------------------
If you want the destiny to chose your spouse, I do not recommend reading the post.
If you want to know more about the quest's billboards mechanism, I recommend reading it.
Shout out to @BlaDe for demystifying the quest's billboards.
If you are someone like me who is having a hard time choosing your future spouse, here's a solution.
You do not need to control your destiny. Let destiny chooses your future spouse.
Let your future lover chases you instead.
Let the "Help Wanted Board" guides you.
⇒ What do I mean by that?
For example, if you help Haley or Sebastian with something, you are increasing 1 heart.
Also, you do not purposely have to trigger the heart's events. You let the event happen itself without looking at the wiki or cheat guides.
4 fundamental rules to follow:
- Do not show your interest to them.
- You should not give them gifts except the Winter Star event but focus on completing quests. ((Being ambitious and hustle for money only.))
- You should not speak with the bachelors or bachelorettes.
- You should only speak with them after you completed their quest.
⇒ Let the bachelor or bachelorette chases you.
Please understand this. You are the only local farmer in the Stardew Valley community.
These bachelors or bachelorettes are hiring YOU for their needs, or maybe they want to see your pretty face... Yoba knows, these bachelors have a secret crush on you?
E.g., I was shocked that Sebastian asks you to bring wheat or joja cola...Sam wants a cave carrot from a cute girl. Haley wants a cucumber from a handsome man...
You know what I am trying to say.
⇒ When do you need to date?
After you reach out to
8
⇒When to marry?
Now, you can gift them their favorite items or foods after finding secret notes, or maybe other NPC will tell you other NPC's favorite gift.
Then, feel free to marry your future spouse.
Pro: You do not need to force someone to like you. You let the person chases you and shows interest in you instead.
Con: This challenge takes a lot of patience.
UPDATE: (SEP 8, 2021)
⇒I do not like the guy who is chasing me...If you did not like the first candidate, you may choose the second candidate.
Do not force yourself to marry or date the first candidate.
⇒ Can I cheat?
Yes, you may break the 4 fundamental rules a little by giving them their favorite gifts, but it is more fun to be chased.
⇒ Can I talk to Haley? She is so funny.
⇒ Can I talk to Harvey? Cause you never know, he can give you excellent health advice in his dialogue.
Yes, you can speak one of the bachelor or bachelorettes once in a while because sometimes they give you great tips or hints.
Do not cling to them or speak with them every day while both of you are single. You will see a negative dialogue. Trust me.
-------------------WARNING-------------------------------------
If you want the destiny to chose your spouse, I do not recommend reading the post.
If you want to know more about the quest's billboards mechanism, I recommend reading it.
Shout out to @BlaDe for demystifying the quest's billboards.
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