IMO the biggest problem with Wedding attire is: you wake up in what you were wearing last night and are teleported immediately to the wedding, no Totem or Sceptre needed! It's likely the single most important outfit change for most players of the game and it's been 3 days since the Farmer gave the Mermaid's Pendant, followed by zero involvement. Farmer Bobbi forgets every time and well, if she's lucky it's a Tank Top, Cat Ears and a skirt. Often it's a Goblin Mask, Genie Pants and a Studded Vest.
Instead the game, for this one day, should have some timeless free play right after you wake to get dressed (if you didn't plan clothes at all, well that's on you) and if available yet in your playthrough, visit the Wizard's basement for a makeover. OOO!!! you could get a free single-use one-day-only Wizard Basement Totem as a pre-wedding gift from him in the mail when he "hears" you're engaged! This seems like a quality of life improvement that almost every farmer could use and they can just skip this timeless option if they want or if they do it like Farmer Bobbi did one year:
Give Pendant
Tailor Veil (save that Pearl from the Mermaid Show)
Tailor very dark Purple Long Dress
Tailor Midnight Dog Jacket
Dig up Dark Boots from the closet
Wear all immediately and avoid all townspeople, no peeksies!
Farm farm day 1
Go to the Mines day 2
Go to Skull Cavern day 3
Arrive at our wedding with hair all over the place, covered in dirt, Serpent guts, slime, random bones, Bobbiblood, voluminous cheez crumbs and smelling like sweat, stink, and dinosaur scales with breath reminiscent of leftover Spicy Eel.
Looking like the best thing that ever happened to this small town.
This is so funny.