If there are any errors in the smapi log, can we also see those? Actually, just in case, send the log even if there aren't any errors.
Just as refrence, mod folders go in the C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Stardew Valley\Mods folder. You probally already tried this, but just in case.
If there are errors, it might be that the mod in question is incompatible with the verison of stardew valley, or as bansaighdear said, your platform (iOS, Windows, ect)
Plus you might need another mod framework or something. I know SpaceCore exists, there might be more.
sorry i forgot to mention i play on windows. i downloaded all the required frameworks for every mod that told me to do so. there is an error, but it's the same as i had always gotten prior to downloading the new mods. i'll put a screenshot here.. or maybe i'll just copy and paste the entirety of the pop up, lol. i'll try going into the steam thing, my brain is a bit foggy i can't even remember what i tried yesterday as it was just a lot. here's my SMAPI log:
[SMAPI] SMAPI 4.2.1 with Stardew Valley 1.6.15 build 24356 on Microsoft Windows 11 Home
[SMAPI] Mods go here: C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Stardew Valley\Mods
[SMAPI] Waiting for game to launch...
[SMAPI] Loading mod metadata...
[SMAPI] Loading mods...
[SMAPI] Loaded 9 mods:
[SMAPI] AutoGate 1.3.5 by Teban100 | Makes passing through gates automatic.
[SMAPI] Billboard Anywhere 1.14.0 by Alpha_Omegasis | Lets you view the billboard from anywhere.
[SMAPI] Console Commands 4.2.1 by SMAPI | Adds SMAPI console commands that let you manipulate the game.
[SMAPI] Content Patcher 2.5.3 by Pathoschild | Loads content packs which edit game data, images, and maps without changing the game files.
[SMAPI] Fashion Sense 7.0.2 by PeacefulEnd | Framework which adds hair animation and more into Stardew Valley.
[SMAPI] Happy Birthday 3.19.2 by Alpha_Omegasis | Adds the farmer's birthday to the game.
[SMAPI] NPC Map Locations 3.3.0 by Bouhm | Shows NPCs and farmers on a modified map page for accurate tracking.
[SMAPI] Save Backup 4.2.1 by SMAPI | Automatically backs up all your saves once per day into its folder.
[SMAPI] StardustCore 3.1.1 by Alpha_Omegasis | A core mod that allows for other mods of mine to be run.
[SMAPI] Loaded 9 content packs:
[SMAPI] Earthy Interface 1.2.0 by DaisyNiko | for Content Patcher
[SMAPI] Earthy Interiors 1.2.2 by DaisyNiko | for Content Patcher
[SMAPI] Earthy Recolour 1.4.4 by DaisyNiko | for Content Patcher
[SMAPI] FS - Lighter Oversized Sleeves 1.0.0 by starrybonns | for Fashion Sense | Lighter Versions of the original oversized sleeves.
[SMAPI] Good Luck, Haley! 1.0.0 by ClairesStoryofSeasons | for Content Patcher | This mod enhances and tweaks Haley's dialogue in Stardew Valley by subtly alluding to her sapphic identity. This mod features pre-festival, pre-marriage, and dating dialogue tailored for the female farmer.
[SMAPI] Happy Birthday en-US Translation Content Pack 1.4.2 by Omegasis | for Happy Birthday | A content pack that contains English translations for the mod, Happy Birthday.
[SMAPI] Hats Won't Mess Up Hair 1.5.0 by misatse1019 | for Content Patcher | Hats won't mess up your hair anymore.
[SMAPI] Shardust's Hairstyles for Content Patcher 7.0.0 by Shardust | for Content Patcher | Shardust's Hairstyles for Content Patcher
[SMAPI] Z_Haley Ever After 1.40.0 by RacingRabbit | for Content Patcher | Haley Ever After is a marriage dialogue expansion pack. It adds over 4000 new lines of marriage dialogue for Haley.
[SMAPI] Skipped mods
[SMAPI] --------------------------------------------------
[SMAPI] These mods could not be added to your game.
[SMAPI] - Stardew Valley Mods\SMAPI 4.1.10 4.1.10\SMAPI 4.1.10 installer because the SMAPI installer isn't a mod (you can delete this folder after running the installer file).
[SMAPI] Patched game code
[SMAPI] --------------------------------------------------
[SMAPI] These mods directly change the game code. They're more likely to cause errors or bugs in-game; if
[SMAPI] your game has issues, try removing these first. Otherwise you can ignore this warning.
[SMAPI] - Fashion Sense
[SMAPI] No update keys
[SMAPI] --------------------------------------------------
[SMAPI] These mods have no update keys in their manifest. SMAPI may not notify you about updates for these
[SMAPI] mods. Consider notifying the mod authors about this problem.
[SMAPI] - Good Luck, Haley!
[SMAPI] Launching mods...
[SMAPI] Mods loaded and ready!
[SMAPI] You can update 1 mod:
[SMAPI] Content Patcher 2.6.1:
https://www.nexusmods.com/stardewvalley/mods/1915 (you have 2.5.3)
Setting breakpad minidump AppID = 413150
SteamInternal_SetMinidumpSteamID: Caching Steam ID: 76561199834161935 [API loaded no]
[SMAPI] Type 'help' for help, or 'help <cmd>' for a command's usage
[Fashion Sense] Successfully hooked into Pathoschild.ContentPatcher.
[Fashion Sense] Loading data from pack: FS - Lighter Oversized Sleeves 1.0.0 by starrybonns
[Fashion Sense] Loading data from pack: FS - Local Pack 7.0.2 by PeacefulEnd
src\steamnetworkingsockets\clientlib\steamnetworkingsockets_lowlevel.cpp (2695) : Assertion Failed: SteamnetworkingSockets service thread waited 113ms for lock! This directly adds to network latency! It could be a bug, but it's usually caused by general performance problem such as thread starvation or a debug output handler taking too long.
src\steamnetworkingsockets\clientlib\steamnetworkingsockets_lowlevel.cpp (2695) : Assertion Failed: SteamnetworkingSockets service thread waited 113ms for lock! This directly adds to network latency! It could be a bug, but it's usually caused by general performance problem such as thread starvation or a debug output handler taking too long.
mind you some of this is normal and has not hindered previous gameplay. I also deleted fashion sense and the corresponding mods. hats won't mess up hairstyles is the only new mod i downloaded that works. thank you for the reply!
EDIT: i actually think you just solved my issue! files have previously been hard for me (im new to using a PC/monitor) and i typed windows + R then copy and pasted "C:\Program Files (x86)\Steam\steamapps\common\Stardew Valley\Mods" and the issue was that the new mods/deleted mods were not/were still in there even though i have a pinned stardew file, sometimes i still need to go to the inner source in my computer. still had to mess with it for a while, but fixed it eventually. thank you so much!