Nothing my spouse does bugs me because I know there are just some limitations to the game but a little more creativity for married life would be welcome.
However my favoritest thing in the game is when my spouse is up on the porch at 6am all sweaty-like and declares that the animals are fed and the crops watered. Thank you, honey, but I got that farm all automated beforehand so you could still:
teach the kids/read
wander the Valley/hit the mines
work at the clinic/invent an auto-petter
Hmm... now that
would be a very nice addition to married life. A 16 heart event for all spouses could be ask to partition off a small part of the farm for them to tend, optional of course. The designers here might not like but then maybe it'd be an interesting challenge to integrate it. But the haphazard farmers like me with loads of untended space would be happy to give a decent plot to the spouse to tend. I wonder if there's a mod for that?