Marriage questions

[Whiteserpent505]

So i'm still kinda new to the game in terms of most stuff, but I wanted to know how the actual date thing works. I know it gets pushed back on certain event days, but is it three days after you ask that the ceremony happens, or does it include the day you ask? Like if I wanted to get married on the 13th, would I ask on the 10th or the 9th?

 

[Cuddlebug]

So i'm still kinda new to the game in terms of most stuff, but I wanted to know how the actual date thing works. I know it gets pushed back on certain even days, but is it three days after you ask that the ceremony happens, or does it include the day you ask? Like if I wanted to get married on the 13th, would I ask on the 10th or the 9th?

Well, the Wiki says, when you ask at Monday the 1st, the ceremony is on thursday the 4th. And if a festival is about to happen at your ceremony day, your wedding will be the day after it.

 

[Whiteserpent505]

Well, the Wiki says, when you ask at Monday the 1st, the ceremony is on thursday the 4th. And if a festival is about to happen at your ceremony day, your wedding will be the day after it.

Thank you lol, just figured I'd double check to be safe!

 

[BeenASon]

Well, the Wiki says, when you ask at Monday the 1st, the ceremony is on thursday the 4th. And if a festival is about to happen at your ceremony day, your wedding will be the day after it.

How do they arrange everything in three days???? Weddings take months to plan lol.

 

[Cuddlebug]

How do they arrange everything in three days???? Weddings take months to plan lol.

IRL yeah, but in Pelican Town it only needs a flowery arc and the people throwing confetti No big buffett, no music, no dance...

 

[BeenASon]

IRL yeah, but in Pelican Town it only needs a flowery arc and the people throwing confetti No big buffett, no music, no dance...

Fair enough. You can arrange that in a day. Also guest list is so small even if you include literally everyone in town.

 

[KarinL]

I like to think everyone goes to the saloon after the ceremony to eat whatever Gus' dish of the day is, and dance to the jukebox.

 

[Cuddlebug]

I like to think everyone goes to the saloon after the ceremony to eat whatever Gus' dish of the day is, and dance to the jukebox.

Nice thought... But since you and your spouse appear at your front porch right after kissing, would be a bit unfair if the guests get a party.

 

[Terdin]

Nice thought... But since you and your spouse appear at your front porch right after kissing, would be a bit unfair if the guests get a party.

Or it could be like the roman calendar, which had 12 months of 30 days, and then between those years, there was a 5 day festival which didn't count because they thought you didn't age at a party. So, everyone in town party for a day that don't get added to the calendar.

 

[BeenASon]

I like to think everyone goes to the saloon after the ceremony to eat whatever Gus' dish of the day is, and dance to the jukebox.

The ceremony is fairly short tho. Wouldn't be surprised if that was the case lol.

 

[Whiteserpent505]

Fair enough. You can arrange that in a day. Also guest list is so small even if you include literally everyone in town.

I know, its crazy lmao. Town so small everyone comes to the wedding.

 

[Lew Zealand]

IRL yeah, but in Pelican Town it only needs a flowery arc and the people throwing confetti No big buffett, no music, no dance...

Not to mention it's all over before 6am and you're back home with new spouse! I wonder if they ever come across Krobus or the Dwarf sneaking about at 5:30am while setup is happening?

 

[BeenASon]

Not to mention it's all over before 6am and you're back home with new spouse! I wonder if they ever come across Krobus or the Dwarf sneaking about at 5:30am while setup is happening?

It is crazy lol. A marriage ceremony is nothing in Pelican town. 3 days of preparation and 1 hour for the ceremony itself. A wedding takes so much longer IRL. Wish it was like in Stardew lmfaoooo.

 

[Dreyski]

And that’s without mentioning the honeymoon…

 

[Cuddlebug]

And that’s without mentioning the honeymoon…

But you can get some comments on that, either from your spouse or the town gossips J & C

 

[Lothengriol]

And that’s without mentioning the honeymoon…

The honeymoon is a good point, especially if you marry when you have the Ginger Island Farmhouse unlocked! I sure would want to spend a week out of Pelican Town after my wedding, especially if I have Sprinklers and Marnie were kind enough to pet the animals while we were away.

 

[Junimo :3]

I don't see why only some of the spouses keep their jobs. they legit QUIT and then DONT EVEN help with farm chores. they sit around all day

 

[Lew Zealand]

I don't see why only some of the spouses keep their jobs. they legit QUIT and then DONT EVEN help with farm chores. they sit around all day

Not everyone becomes a layabout.

Maru keeps her job at Harvey's Clinic
Emily works at the Saloon Mondays and Fridays
Penny still teaches Jas and Vincent
Elliott ditches you to go on a freekin' book tour!
Harvey still works at his Clinic Tuesdays and Thursdays

Abigail, Alex, and Haley don't have jobs so no loss there. Leah still works on her carvings, just at the farmhouse now. I'm not sure Sebastian exists so no comment.

But yeah Shane leaving his Jojajob even if Joja is still open is disappointing and Sam no longer working at Joja or the Museum is lame.

 

[Maher]

One would like to see more done with Haley and her photography. Like Leah, she spends her Saturdays working on her art. Maybe she could give the farmer a gift with a comment like "I sold a photo to {periodical name} so I got you this."