Two questions!

[Hat Mouse Jr.]

1. I am married to Haley, but some days I come home and wait for her until 2am and she just doesn't come back?! Why does this happen?

2. One day, I cam home at 6 pm from a day of grinding at skull caverns. When I got back at the bus stop, Pam was still standing there. I thought it was weird, but I didn't think too much of it until I came back to the bus stop at 10 PM (?!?!?!?!) and she was STILL THERE??!?!!?! Unfortunately, I am on a different device right now and I don't have the screenshots, but believe me when I say SHE WAS STILL THERE AT 12 AND SHE STARTED HEADING HOME AT 1 AM?!?!?! Honestly, I'm not too mad about it. I love Pam, but I'm glad she took a break from the saloon. Why though? Why?!?

 

[REtroGeekery]

Do you have another double bed anywhere in the house? In one of my PS4 saves, the farmer is married to Alex and he kept not being in the farmer's bed when I rushed in to avoid passing out. I had set up a guest room in the optional room above the spouse room and it turned out he was sleeping in there. He continued to sleep in his room for over an in-game year (which was the last time I played on that save). So he just have his own bedroom now.

No idea with Pam. What system is this save on? Maybe someone else on the same one can check if it happens on theirs.

 

[Hat Mouse Jr.]

Found the picture!

 

[FilthyGorilla]

1. I am married to Haley, but some days I come home and wait for her until 2am and she just doesn't come back?! Why does this happen?

2. One day, I cam home at 6 pm from a day of grinding at skull caverns. When I got back at the bus stop, Pam was still standing there. I thought it was weird, but I didn't think too much of it until I came back to the bus stop at 10 PM (?!?!?!?!) and she was STILL THERE??!?!!?! Unfortunately, I am on a different device right now and I don't have the screenshots, but believe me when I say SHE WAS STILL THERE AT 12 AND SHE STARTED HEADING HOME AT 1 AM?!?!?! Honestly, I'm not too mad about it. I love Pam, but I'm glad she took a break from the saloon. Why though? Why?!?

Mobile just does weird stuff sometimes, especially if you use the save and auto save functions. Especially with spouses and robin, I really wouldn’t worry about it.

 

[Lew Zealand]

Hm, maybe the real story is that Pam cleared Gus outta booze on Saturday night and he didn't have enough time to buy more because he had to carry Pam home and was wiped by the time that was done. Sleep all day Sunday and he's just offering food and soft drinks at the Saloon on Sunday evening for Impromptu Teetotaler's Day so now Pam's got nothing better to do.

And there's no way she's gonna go home and spend an evening being nagged by Penny to pick up the floors and wash the windows and wear age-appropriate clothes, so suddenly hanging at the Bus looking important seems like a great way to spend an evening. Only problem is she really wants that chair to take a load off but knows the time taken to fetch it risks being caught by you since you're the one who put it there to get her to walk faster.

By the way, does that work or does she path find around it? I remember a DF video where he planted Trees at the Bus Stop to annoy The Pam™ and she just pathed around them, taking her sweet time as always. You gotta to the bodyblock yourself to get her up and running, this is an interactive game!

 

[PoppyForPenny]

Spouses often behave oddly. I find that they do not always follow their schedule as listed on the wiki. Several times with different spouses, they are just not anywhere!
I've never seen Pam do that but I bet it's the chair. The characters do not "like" their pathways messed with.

 

[Hat Mouse Jr.]

Spouses often behave oddly. I find that they do not always follow their schedule as listed on the wiki. Several times with different spouses, they are just not anywhere!
I've never seen Pam do that but I bet it's the chair. The characters do not "like" their pathways messed with.

I accidentally placed it down a while ago and kept it because it was funny to see Pam walk through a chair and then go faster, but no, that isn’t it. I did eventually remove it (I put it in front of her door), but it only happened once and it was there for a while!

the answer for Haley makes sense, it confuses me a lot when she just isn’t there, but thanks!

 

[Hat Mouse Jr.]

Hm, maybe the real story is that Pam cleared Gus outta booze on Saturday night and he didn't have enough time to buy more because he had to carry Pam home and was wiped by the time that was done. Sleep all day Sunday and he's just offering food and soft drinks at the Saloon on Sunday evening for Impromptu Teetotaler's Day so now Pam's got nothing better to do.

And there's no way she's gonna go home and spend an evening being nagged by Penny to pick up the floors and wash the windows and wear age-appropriate clothes, so suddenly hanging at the Bus looking important seems like a great way to spend an evening. Only problem is she really wants that chair to take a load off but knows the time taken to fetch it risks being caught by you since you're the one who put it there to get her to walk faster.

By the way, does that work or does she path find around it? I remember a DF video where he planted Trees at the Bus Stop to annoy The Pam™ and she just pathed around them, taking her sweet time as always. You gotta to the bodyblock yourself to get her up and running, this is an interactive game!

Haha, I’m sure that’s it! I did end up removing it because I realized the chair didnt help there, so I put it in front of her door. Sorry, Penny!