One of my farmers also married Sebastian. My biggest frustration with him initially was that he didn’t seem to be using his time productively. I didn’t really want a farm hand, but I did want him to be able to follow his dreams. I mean, why else am I working so hard? Both Elliot and Sam do take the opportunity for growth and I wanted the same experience with Sebastian. But then, I got a snippet of dialogue that implies he was chasing his dreams. Don’t worry, he is working. He’ll tell you about it.
Now, when Elliot asked about money 2 days after marriage I was pissed. He literally moved from a one room shack to a thriving multi-roomed farmhouse. Show some gratitude. But overall, he’s a great husband too.