I like to use an achievable early game rule of thumb of:
Talk each day
2

liked Gifts each week (on average)

liked Gift saved for their Birthday
So what does that get us? There are
250 Friendship points per

.
20 points per Talk =
140 each week
45 * 1.1

points per Gift, plus the 2-gift bonus of 10 points =
110 each week
45 * 1.25

* 8 Bday points for the Birthday Gift =
450 once a year
This means you make a total of
250 points each week just talking with 2 modest Gifts, exactly what you need for one

. And a good liked Birthday Gift gets you almost 2 whole

that day. So over a half year, you can take any Villager up to 8

and those with Birthdays in that half year just about to 10

!
Bonuses:
Loved

Gift for Birthday = 800 points, or 3

!
Loved

Gift for Birthday = 960 points or almost 4

!
Delivery requests from the Board are 150 points, 60% of a

Cutscene choices can award (and subtract or do nothing to)

depending on what you say
Some Events like making a good Luau Soup also get you community

with everyone
The Feast of the Winter Star Gift gets a 5x Multiplier, so a liked Gift gets 280

or 248

points, another

.