I feel like once we start dating a NPC character or another online player we should be able to kiss alot!! it will be worth it so that way we don't have to worry about downloading those kind of mods..
Can you elaborate? You can kiss as much as you want without mods, you just get the stamina bonus/the little heart the first time. Do you mean the stamina bonus, or something else?
I thought there was only giving your spouse a squeeze every now and then. What is this kissing you're talking about? Next thing you know yo'll be telling me you can hold hands too!
I just think some indication you're dating other than a slight boost in flirty language and the 10 heart event. More than kissing, I want dates! Plural.
(There's a mod that lets you go on dates with your married partner, which actually does a lot to make married life feel a bit nicer, but none, afaik, for pre-marriage but post bouquet. And once again, mods, while I actively enjoy using them, are just not the same as written into the game.)