missed opportunities

Ok, so I’m at 10 hearts with Shane (yippee), BUT I missed the 10 heart event, 8, and 6, am I able to activate those still? Because if so I am having a very hard time doing it.

If you set your controller down and forget to pause, or fall asleep while playing. There is no safeguard to protect you from sleeping through an entire season! The bed asks you if you want to go to sleep how is there no action button to wake up?? You lose money and time and it feels like a major...