#lag

Is anyone able to tell me What's causing my insufferable lag? The errors are not new and I've updated everything. I'm so heck'n frustrated. https://smapi.io/log/1ead0b03bf1041ee9fa2a23bf455edca

So...ever since my bf started joining my farm lag started to go under way. It only happens to me since I'm the one hosting the farm online since local play kicks him out for some random reason. Around 50s or more while we play my game freezes for a few seconds or up to 1 minute (range depends...

So i haven't been playing stardew valley for the past 5 months but yesterday when i came back with the same laptop it used to run the game smoothly it just doesn`t work anymore, the music just starts freezing middle game and the game lags and looks like im teleporting, i searched for this error...