Need Help fixing stardew valley XBOX

speedblakes

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Im trying to play Stardew valley on co-op with my girlfriend but whenever she invites me or I click join, it takes ages to connect then says "connection failed", we have tried everything
-both have closed the game
-both have turned the Xbox off
-both have uninstalled and reinstalled the game
-I have moved to a new internet source
-made max starting cabins
-tried new worlds

I'm not sure what to do but I really want this fixed if anyone knows, I know my other multiplayer games work fine so I'm really confused, please
Thanks!
 
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